Monday, October 26, 2015

"We're Survivors, NOT Victims"

By Monica Vest Wheeler
Retreat & Refresh Stroke Camp Staff Volunteer

“We’re survivors, NOT victims.”

Our society needs to take the word “victim” out of its vocabulary when it comes to stroke. 

If you've had a stroke, you are a survivor, NOT a victim. When you think of yourself as a victim, that hurts your recovery. It distracts you from focusing on the present and the future, where all your energy needs to directed. 

If you're a caregiver, your loved one is a survivor, NOT a victim. When you think of them as a victim, that affects how you aid them in their recovery. It distracts you from focusing on the present and the future, where all your energy needs to directed. (Yes, that's a repeat of the above!)

I admit that I blow a gasket whenever I see "victim" in a news headline about stroke. I cringe when I hear medical professionals refer to survivors as victims, and when I can gently correct them, I do so with a smile. When I hear a caregiver refer to their loved one as a victim, I follow up with how "your SURVIVOR …" And when I hear a survivor refer to themselves as a victim, I boldly say, "You are a SURVIVOR!"

That statement, "We're survivors, NOT victims," was expressed during one of the first survivor discussion groups I participated in at Retreat & Refresh Stroke Camp in 2008. And I've never forgotten it.

And I never, never forget it when I volunteer at a Stroke Camp because I get to witness survival at its finest. I am exposed to so much life and the real purpose of living that I have been forever transformed by it. Stroke Camp leads the way when it comes to the true meaning of life with an abundance of love, connections, laughter, personal expression, creativity, the right kind of tears, and the hugs, oh yes, the hugs. 

Here are just a tiny, tiny sampling of the faces of survivors who have surrounded me with so much life and love this year … Not enough room to share them all!  :-)














 


 

 





Sunday, October 18, 2015

Strike Out Stroke Survivors

                  COURAGE, 
HOPE,
RESILIENCY


Teaching Stroke Awareness is Strike Out Stroke's Mission and celebrating stroke survivors tenacity and determination is a driving force in educating the public about this devastating disease.

Putting a human face on stroke is a goal of SOS. Who are the people afflicted by Stroke and what does it take to recover? How does stroke impact a survivor and their family? 
What kind of outcomes do stroke survivors face for their lives? 











Strike Out Stroke Events select outstanding candidates to represent the gender, age and ethnic diversity of stroke survivors as well as the multiplicity of outcomes and to represent the drive that moves stroke victims from personal adversity to social advocacy.

The life stories are inspirational, touching baseball fans to rally to advocate in their own lives and social circles.


Survivors ....walk, limp and roll onto the field proud of their recovered abilities....they demonstrate that young people and children, black, brown, white and yellow have strokes ....and with hard work the human spirit will recover, revive, recreate a new spirit in a stroke survivor! They all deserve to be uplifted and CELEBRATED!

Visit strikeoutstroke.com


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Tuesday, October 13, 2015

RRSC October/November 2015 Newsletter

The following is from our camp's October/November Newsletter.In this newsletter we will hear from Larry Schaer, Associate Director, who is sitting in the "directors" chair this issue.
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by Larry Schaer
Today I want to share an observation with all of you. As the Associate Director of Retreat & Refresh Stroke Camp I have the privilege of meeting hundreds of people across the country through stroke camps and Strike Out Stroke events. It is truly amazing to see people taking the initiative to educate and support stroke survivors in their respective communities. Little did we know the decision to take stroke camp "on the road" would have such an impact in communities across the country.

In 2007, we made a decision to create a national network of stroke camps. Today we see the fruit of that decision where survivors, caregivers, family members, sponsors and volunteers are making a positive difference in their own communities. It is not unusual to see fundraisers, 5th grade education classes, Strike Out Stroke events across the country. For example, a couple of camp volunteers have planned an event, dancing with the docs, to raise funds for multiple camps in the Phoenix area. A Denver stroke survivor created his own non-profit organization tt,,at provides cycling and snowboarding opportunities for stroke survivors {see related article in this newsletter). A California stroke survivor planned and conducted her own Strike Out Stroke in her community.

The common denominator in these stories is the fact that all of them have participated in one of our stroke camps. It is our belief there are many stories where ordinary people are making miracles that are improving the quality of life in their communities. If you have a story we would like to hear it. If you'd like to send your story, just forward it to us at info@strokecamp.org. Want to call us, the number is 309-688-5450.
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Survivor Spotlight

It happened the morning of August 2, 1983, twenty-four days before my 30th birthday and I was living the American dream. I had a beautiful wife; we had our first daughter, born in July. We had a house, cars, money in savings and I was in the process of starting my own business. Life was good, but on that day while spending the afternoon with my in-laws, I had my first stroke. My future was to include seven strokes within three and a half years.

By my fifth stroke my doctor told me to go visit with a psychologist to deal with my own death. He did not know what was causing me to have these cerebral accidents. The test following my sixth stroke led to a diagnoses of my disease, Granulomatous Angiitis known now as Isolated Angiitis of the Central Nervous System.

It was between my fifth and sixth strokes that a close friend of mine invited me to go skiing. We had ski raced in our high school years, and after, until my first stroke. This day of skiing was the first time since this whole ordeal had begun, no doctors, no appointments, no hospital stays, nothing but skiing. This would have a profound effect on my future, right up to today.

After my seventh stroke, there were problems and challenges in the ER and I was feeling down and sorry for myself. The morning of the third day I thought to myself  "this is not doing me a damn a bit of good." I went to the speech rehab center and held up my note "teach me how to speak." My rehab button was on again!

In the fall of 1987 I saw an ad on the television for instructors to teach the disabled how to ski. I decided to became an instructor and have taught for 21 years. The discovery that there was no formal instruction for stroke survivors to learn to ski, led to the formation of the Snow Strokers of Colorado. When a few of us stroke survivors and their caregivers started riding our bicycles at the Aurora Reservoir, the Spoke Strokers were formed.
The whole purpose of the Snow Strokers of Colorado and the Spoke Strokers is to integrate the mental and physical rehabilitation in an outdoor environment for stroke survivors. There is something therapeutic about being outdoors in the fresh air, with blue sky, and sunshine. That is why we are here - to help all stroke survivors. 
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Sunday, October 4, 2015

So much beauty … inside and out

By Monica Vest Wheeler
Retreat & Refresh Stroke Camp Staff Volunteer

I'm smiling all the time at the Stroke Camps I attend, but a survivor this year — who was attending her first camp — put an extra big smile on my face when she asked if I'd take her photo after she had finished a session with the Mary Kay ladies who had volunteered their services at this particular camp.

Of course!

High on Stroke Camp's priority list is a pampering experience for our caregivers and survivors because everyone deserves to be pampered, especially our campers! Since I started volunteering in 2008, I've witnessed some wonderful moments … from survivors who haven't put on make-up since their stroke because they had to focus on more important things like surviving everyday life with the use of only one hand, usually their non-dominant one … to caregivers who also have more important challenges in getting everyone through everyday life in a post-stroke world.

This post isn't about women and make-up. (We've also had quite a few men who enjoyed their first-ever facial!) It's about taking a moment to focus on yourself, which everyone deserves, and to help YOU feel good about YOURSELF. We are so privileged to offer this opportunity at Stroke Camp.

That isn't being selfish or greedy with your time. It's all the human desire to refresh the image we see of ourselves in the mirror. Many stroke survivors and caregivers are either so rushed or so slowed by the effects of stroke that they forget to "stop and smell the roses," or give themselves a chance to be simply human.

It isn't vanity; it's simply feeling good about themselves, because that is one of best mental health services that can ever be offered. When we feel good about ourselves on the outside, all the vital organs that keep us going on the inside are being nourished and given a much-needed break from the stress that works overtime to break us down.

Yes, there is so much beauty at Stroke Camp … inside and out …